I know first-hand info about what it was like growing up in the Depression, being a resident in a psychiatric ward before psychotropic drugs were created, etc. Many older women will take the lead in bed in a way they would never have done in their youth. Go in with your eyes open and appreciate the experience for what it is — a dalliance with the youthful exuberance of your past. Seriously ever dude over 50 looks 35 and is in great shape right? We have been dating for 7 weeks. He used to say he enjoys my company and he admires my outlook towards life as both of us were very different. Unfortunately, if there were two 25 year old hotties, I would of course have choice, and you would be confounded by this oddity.
People are there to teach you things that you can learn from. Younger men are more likely to have a flat stomach and all their hair. I would imagine that the best case scenario is that you both very much want kids and both of you will step up to make the sacrifices necessary to raise them. Something happened to first guy. While this is not currently a major issue for us, I have concerns in my mind about marrying someone who will probably die well before me, and who would not be as mobile as a younger man with young children.
Some older men are more affectionate, understanding and you feel secure with them and its not always about their 'ego'. At 31 my mom met my step dad, who is 10 years older. She will be well into her 60s when I have my first child, which means she will be less mobile. I was seeing 9 girls and from the moment we met we were inseperable and I dropped the ball on all of them. Christian rudder: i'm now you're a 24-and-a-half-year-old woman while her 30s, pepper. I am kinda in the same boat as you, 28 and wanting kids but finding myself at a dead-end romantically as far as someone with similar life goals.
I am 46 and have been writing a 33 year old now for almost 9 months. We can complete eachothers sentences and anticipate eachothers thoughts. I was 23 and my ex was 36…and yes he robbed the cruddle. We have so much in common and we have so much fun together. Cause the person at a real loveing level alll you love about them , you watch their body age and them struggle to communicate and talk and it killllls you.
It usually wound up being more amusing to me than anything. He started looking 60, whereas he looked younger than his age when we met. Traditional child bearing kind of thing without biological link to him. If it was necessary I could have made it work, but I am so grateful my parents told me to stop and focus on school instead. Risking family life and hurting his partner. I'd probably start to feel a little creepy myself.
I live a very exciting life, full of adventure and experiences, that they want to be a part of. But can l ask all guys over 50, would you cheat on your younger woman? The slightest hardship will result in a nervous breakdown and the woman will be stuck babying them back to their male privilege health. Women had babies very late in life many years ago. Ideally I agree with you though. Some people back east where I grew up are the same age as I am and seem older, they smoke, drink, eat crap, etc.
I am 35 my man is 20 and when i found out i was surprised. Surprisingly people my age have had less sexual partners and r frankly boring in bed. My dad is 15 yrs older than my mom and I am one of 4 children. The way tthe younger women think and are is liberating than women my age. I grew up with the best grandparents and altho my mom and I have had a tumultuous relationship over the years, she loves her grandkids I have 2, my sister has 2 She is the Nani and they all love her.
I read through this thread and am now very nervous. Instead of being belligerent, rebellious, and showing your immaturity, why not embrace my experience, learn from it, and try to emulate my experiences? Having resources and emotional maturity is the main reason I see for waiting. With children, necessarily follows a need for money. I really think she is worried about what other people will think. She says she feels more comfortable with me than with any other guy she's met. I was 13 or 14 and frankly, selfish. Don't be surprise if she at some point have reservations.